It appears that I only post on this Blog about once a year.  I guess no one will "dis" me for posting too much, too often!

Today I am finishing up a memory quilt for a woman I don't even know.  She found me through a local business referral (thank you Julie!), and wanted me to make a quilt from her late son's clothing.  I think she contacted me back in April about it.  It took awhile for the box of clothing to arrive, and in the meantime another huge t-shirt quilt project landed in my lap.  The t-shirt quilt took forever to finish for a number of different reasons, so I wasn't able to even start on the memory quilt until a couple of weeks ago.

I'm grateful to the woman for being so patient; just as I was getting started on the project, she emailed me to kind of say she was tired of waiting, and if I didn't want to do it, it was OK.  Fortunately, this project was only going to be 40" by 50", so it went together pretty quickly, once I was able to carve out a couple of days to tackle it.

It's a little odd working with a dead dude's clothing.  You wonder what he was like, how old he was, what did he do for a living; things like that.  As I was going through the box of clothing, I noticed that almost all of the clothing was in neutral colors:  grays, tans, black.  Even the neckties were pretty plain, although there were some red ones, a couple of blue ones, and one really beautiful yellow one.  All were name brands (as was most of the clothing), and all in impeccable shape.

I looked for signs of wear on the clothing, so I could hopefully work with pieces that he had worn a lot.  I guess he must have cleared out a lot of his worn-out stuff because all of the clothing was in good shape.  And then there were the t-shirts and the sweatshirt.  The sweatshirt was a high school football shirt.  There were only three t-shirts:  a double-sided one in black, a light gray one, and a soft royal blue one.

The double-sided one was a little strange.  The front of the shirt had a large cartoonish figure with a script-like caption that said, "Slam One Down."  The back side was just plain white letters.  It said, "WHO REALLY WANTS TO LIVE FOREVER."  When I first saw this, it made me stop in my tracks, like, "Really? Am I supposed to use this on the quilt?"  But as I worked on the project, I thought, if this is a shirt he wore, then maybe it actually fits in with the idea of a memory quilt.  It also seemed completely opposite from the character of all the other clothing.

The other two shirts were along the lines of "burn-out" fabric - lightweight, but they were also made so the grain of the fabric was twisted.  Yet the shirts hung straight, and didn't seem to be out of whack.  They were similar quality, and were screened inside the back of the collar areas with the company's information.  Same company, but one was made in Peru and the other in another South American country (not Columbia).

So, one would conclude that the gentleman must have traveled to these exotic places at some point in his life, and collected these shirts.  The fronts were "artsy" with original looking designs on them.  Nothing fancy, and silk screened in only one or two colors.

As I was finishing up making the quilt top, I was thinking of titles that might be appropriate for the quilt.  For example, "It's Complicated," or "Not Quite As It Seemed," or "Two Sides to Every Story."

It really doesn't matter too much what kind of title I would give it, because I rarely ever give these quilts their own definitive title.  They are memory quilts, and it's really up to the owner to give it a name - or not.

The thing is, though, that things like the clothes we wear actually do reveal little details about us that make us unique.  No one else's memory quilt will ever have the same components that this one does.  Even though most of the clothing was mass-produced, the combination of colors, textures and choices is unique to this person.

I hope I've done an adequate job on this project, and that the man's mother (who commissioned me) will gain some degree of comfort from it.